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A Day of Consent
Later, he was going to make breakfast for himself, and he asked if I wanted breakfast. I didn’t. So he made breakfast for himself. I...
Oct 21, 20163 min read


What To Say When You Find Out Your Kid’s A Rapist
Brock Turner was convicted of violently raping an incapacitated woman, but his father, Dan, thinks his loss of appetite is enough...
Jun 5, 20166 min read
Random Access Memories (of love and rape)
It’s funny, the things that get you. We refer to our pasts as if they are a destination once passed through, accessible only by an...
May 29, 20114 min read
Reclaiming The Word “Slut”
I have loved watching this SlutWalk phenomenon sweep the planet. I love it for a lot of reasons. I love anything that brings the...
May 16, 20115 min read
PTSD: It’s NOT All In Your Head
As I’ve discussed a zillion times, I was raped the summer after I graduated from high-school. Not just raped, but stalked, so it was...
Nov 29, 20106 min read
Life After Rape
Twenty-three years ago – when I was 17 and had just graduated from high-school – someone broke into my house while I was sleeping, came...
Aug 19, 201011 min read
Talking To Children About Rape
Sexual assault is a scary topic – for both parents and children. But, talking about it is one step towards both prevention and healing....
Jan 6, 20104 min read
Life and Love After Rape
I was just perusing the blogs on Blogher.org, and there was a post from a member stating the obvious and shameful truth that no one talks...
Nov 12, 20093 min read
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